The Becky Crisis
On the other hand, we know our Becky. She does not want us involved in her care.
Even now, this day, there is no desire for her to have much contact with us.
So, here's my opinion about that: I will not be tolerated. I spent an entire year of school life being bullied. I decode those formative days and learn to deal with the wounds from that time. If my daughter desires no contact, that is her right. It is rejection. She's an adult and has a right to have us removed from her life. Let it be known that I did not choose this, but I respect her decision and will not tread where I am not wanted. What her father does, is his business.