Job, ICON, Sci Fi

I have a job... I'm an adult therapist in a hard-to-get-to place. And yet, we've got Covens, and Methlabs and Lesbian communities and religious enthusiasts...
What I don't have is Sci Fi. No anime, no discussion groups, no fandom friends, few books.
I did get to go to ICON (Cedar Rapids, IA Oct Halloween Weekend). I got a small fix... now I'm back and missing all he above.
But, I'm moved. I'm employed. I'm not crazy. I started martial arts (Kajikenbo, Kenpo-Hawaiian style. My knee has not given out.
Could be worse. Could be better.
I have two new guitars... I have a job... I have a white belt. I have no time. Can't work on the book, the website, myself--well, Kenpo helps me work on myself.